Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Lies Women Believe...

In Chapter 2 of Lies Women Believe... Nancy listed six lies the enemy uses about God, I will be discussing the a last three.
All quotes are in blue from this book.

Here's the list of all six lies:
1. God is not really good
2. God doesn't love me
                                 3. God is just like my father
                                 4. God is not really enough
                                 5. God's ways are too restrictive
                                 6. God should fix my problems

Lie #4 God is not really enough
Just before our bible classes on Wednesday nights, many of us go to the sanctuary for prayer, and worship.  As the words left my mouth, my heart became overwhelmed knowing that my God was enough. But when
we walk out the door, and enter into the world, if we're not careful things can change. In our heart we want God to be enough, but somehow Satan draws our attention, just like he did with Eve, to the one thing that we can't or don't have.

In my early Christian walk, I  use to sit in the balcony at church, but I found that all my attention went to the lady walking down the aisle with the great looking shoes (I love shoes) or my eyes would search for the latest haircut. Do you see where I'm going with this? Satan will use the smallest things to take your eyes off from Jesus, he wants you to believe that Christ isn't enough to satisfy your needs, even the smallest ones.

Now, it's not wrong to have nice things or meaningful relationships in our lives. God has given us the desire for those things, but it's when WE place them in the emptiness of our heart, which is only meant for Him, that the lie begins... God is not really enough.

Lie #5 God's ways are too restrictive
Over and over again, the Scripture teaches that God's laws are for our good and our protection. Obedience is the pathway to freedom. but Satan places in our minds the idea that God's laws are burdensome, unreasonable, and unfair, and the if we obey Him we will be miserable.

Deuteronomy 6:24-25  And the Lord our God commanded us to obey all these decrees and to fear him so he can continue to bless us and preserve our lives, as he has done to this day.  For we will be counted as righteous when we obey all the commands the Lord our God has given us. 
God has given us boundaries because He knows what is best for us. He created us. Okay, so you've heard that before, but it's true. I can think of at least a million times, well maybe not a million, that I have disobey God. Okay, I'm sure it's been a least it a million, and the outcome, lets just say I have many regrets. The key to freedom in our flesh... is living out God's Word.

James 1:22-25  But don’t just listen to God’s word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves.  For if you listen to the word and don’t obey, it is like glancing at your face in a mirror.  You see yourself, walk away, and forget what you look like. But if you look carefully into the perfect law that sets you free, and if you do what it says and don’t forget what you heard, then God will bless you for doing it.
Every time that I look into a mirror and something isn't right, I fix it! Which means I have to DO an action. I can stand in front of the mirror ( listening to the Word) all day but if I don't correct it, my problem will still be there. So, instead of saying " We're only human and we're going to make mistakes." Let us say
"I'm a child of God and my Father will give me the strength to do what is right."

Lie # 6 God Should Fix My Problems
First, it reduces God to a cosmic genie who exists to please and serve us, a hired servant who comes running to wait on us every time we ring the bell. Second, it suggests that the goal in life is to be free from all problems, to get rid of everything that is difficult or unpleasant.

When troubles or trials come it's an opportunity to live out God's Word. My marriage was a mess, it was in trouble and if God didn't do something about this marriage, this too was going to fail. My first marriage fell apart after ten years. Growing up, I had seen a life lived out of just what a wife should be to her husband ( my mom was a great role model) but being a liberated woman, it was a role I wasn't going to fill. I lived a life of misery for twelve years scheming, complaining, plotting and digging my heels into the ground waiting for my husband to change. But what I discover was that God only needs a willing heart that wants to be obedient to His Word.

So, one night after several meetings with a pastor and many tears, I heard God speak to my heart. After a big fight with my husband, I screamed at God telling Him to do something because I was sick and tried of my husband's attitude. And God's  responds was  " I'm going through you to get to him." I pretended I didn't hear it, but I knew what He meant, and from that day forward I started being a doer of the Word.

Dan and I have been married for 22 years, and content because we've learned to do it God's way.



Karen said...

Of the six lies, these last three that you have shared with us, are the ones I have wrestled with before...especially took many years for my eyes to be opened to the truth about that and when I look back on those years, I can't believe I was so blinded by "things" and "people"...I need to read this book!

Lori Laws said...

When troubles or trials come it's an opportunity to live out God's Word...

So true. So much wisdom in your words, Tammy. Lies, Lies, Lies - Satan never gives up,does he?

Yeah, I would love to see some of your husband's work. Send me the link. God bless!

Edie said...

"I pretended I didn't hear it, but I knew what He meant..." I've been there too. Still learning to do it ALL His way. Thanks for the encouragement.

Love you!

Pat said...

I loved this post, love you video below and love your heart!! What a great God we serve who called you into ministry! Thank you for saying yes!!

Lisa said...

Boy! What a nice blog you have here. I read a comment you left on something Billy Coffey wrote. I am a Pro-Lifer too....However, I have never faced having to choose...I think you are very brave to talk about your abortion on someones else's comments...More woman need to stand up and tell the stories that haunt them. For the sake of my daughters I thank you.

LisaShaw said...

I'm so blessed BY EVERYTHING the LORD uses you to share. Your transparency continues to change lives and bless many. I love you dear friend.

Tara said...

These are biggies! I think #6 is particularly common because we think that as a Christian everything should be rosy. Jesus never promised that. But so many of us have a hard time accepting hard times and choosing to trust God's sovereignty and submit to it. Great post! Thank you for sharing!

Beth in NC said...

A lot of wisdom here girl! Thank you for sharing with us!

LynnSC said...

Hi Tammy,

This is so true. I believe that most of us have listened to the enemies lies for so long... we don't even realize that they are lies. I learned so much from that book.

Also... thanks so much for dropping by my blog to say hello. I hadn't blogged in a couple months... and I enjoyed your love and encouragement. Sometimes we just need it.


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