Thursday, May 15, 2014
The Spoon...
I have the opportunity every month to write for Women Walking with Jesus, here's one of things my mother taught me...
http://lisashawcares.com/the-spoon/
Tuesday, March 4, 2014
It's here...
I've always been talker, but to place my words on paper, I thought you've got to be kidding...Lord. But He wasn't. Over seven years ago, He led me to the world of blogging where He wanted me to share my story (God's story) with whoever would read. No more hiding from my bad choices, selfish desires or pity-parties I would have from time to time.
Well, a new season has begun and He's asked me to step it up a notch. So, click on Women Walking with Jesus, come along and see how Jesus works it all out... every step, every trial, and every blessing.
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Monday, February 24, 2014
A New Thing...
Isaiah 43:19 (NLT)
For I am about to do something new.
See, I have already begun! Do you not see it?
For I am about to do something new.
See, I have already begun! Do you not see it?
Isn’t it exciting how God
is always working in our lives. Even before we are aware of it. To think that girl who lived her life with lustful desires would one day be writing about Jesus…really?
Yes, really.
Here’s how this ‘new’ thing that I have the privilege to be
a part of got started. I meet Lisa Shaw over seven years ago through my blog
and we immediately became sisters in Christ. Within a few months, my family
made planned to take a vacation and to my surprise it lead to her neck of the
woods. I was wonderfully treated as her guest for a day during our vacation and
as the saying goes…history was made.
Throughout the years, I’ve grown to love and respect her as
a woman of God. So when she asked me to join her and 12 other women each
month on her site to share stories about real life, encouragement and our heart
as Women walking with Jesus, I just had to say “yes!” So, I hope you’ll stop by every month to read,
be blessed and begin your own journey of walking with Jesus.
Monday, January 13, 2014
Running to His Mercy Seat...
Her testimony led me to His Mercy seat...
She spoke with no shame. Her voice was calm as she made this confession… “I’ve had an abortion, and not one but four. I’m no longer ashamed. I’m forgiven and Jesus Christ changed my life.”
She stood there with confidence, as she continued on with her testimony behind the pulpit at my church over 10 years ago. It was her story I needed to hear, yet the voice in my head was shouting… “you must never let anyone know what happened on November 12, 1989, for if you do, you’ll be known as a “murder!” But then there was this other voice… softer, sweeter, tugging at my heart proclaiming “if you confess THIS secret and BELIEVE you are forgiven… ALL will be new again.”
It seemed like a lifetime ago, when words of confession flowed from this woman's mouth, it was living water to me. I’m thankful that our pastor gave her a platform to share the Truth of God, His Forgiveness and Grace to those of us who were running from the Mercy seat because of our abortion(s).
I’ve come a long way since that day… the day when the enemy tried to keep my “secret sin” a secret. Today, I proclaim God’s mercy toward my abortion with no shame and living in His forgiveness. God has given me many opportunities since then to share my story (God’s Story) and to help other women find healing on the road to His forgiveness.
On Sunday, January 19, 2014 we will have an opportunity to speak out for the Sanctity of Human Life. I believe God wants us to speak the truth. His truth can be spoken with compassion and conviction. Jesus did…with the woman at the well. On Sanctity of Human Life Sunday some churches will do all they can to bring awareness of how abortion has and is affecting us in our churches, communities and our country. While others will skim the surface hoping not to bring to much attention to a very controversial and political issue and I’m sad to say, there will even be churches that won’t mention “it” at all.
Revelation 12:11 (NIV) They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony;
She spoke with no shame. Her voice was calm as she made this confession… “I’ve had an abortion, and not one but four. I’m no longer ashamed. I’m forgiven and Jesus Christ changed my life.”
She stood there with confidence, as she continued on with her testimony behind the pulpit at my church over 10 years ago. It was her story I needed to hear, yet the voice in my head was shouting… “you must never let anyone know what happened on November 12, 1989, for if you do, you’ll be known as a “murder!” But then there was this other voice… softer, sweeter, tugging at my heart proclaiming “if you confess THIS secret and BELIEVE you are forgiven… ALL will be new again.”
It seemed like a lifetime ago, when words of confession flowed from this woman's mouth, it was living water to me. I’m thankful that our pastor gave her a platform to share the Truth of God, His Forgiveness and Grace to those of us who were running from the Mercy seat because of our abortion(s).
I’ve come a long way since that day… the day when the enemy tried to keep my “secret sin” a secret. Today, I proclaim God’s mercy toward my abortion with no shame and living in His forgiveness. God has given me many opportunities since then to share my story (God’s Story) and to help other women find healing on the road to His forgiveness.
On Sunday, January 19, 2014 we will have an opportunity to speak out for the Sanctity of Human Life. I believe God wants us to speak the truth. His truth can be spoken with compassion and conviction. Jesus did…with the woman at the well. On Sanctity of Human Life Sunday some churches will do all they can to bring awareness of how abortion has and is affecting us in our churches, communities and our country. While others will skim the surface hoping not to bring to much attention to a very controversial and political issue and I’m sad to say, there will even be churches that won’t mention “it” at all.
Revelation 12:11 (NIV) They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony;
Thursday, November 21, 2013
The Real Me
Truth led her to the Water…
“If you want to know the truth, go ask Tammy.” Yep, that’s what Mom would say because she knew I didn’t beat around the bush. It’s how God made me. Maybe that’s why it’s easy for me to speak truth into the lives of those who are hurting and struggling with life. To bring freedom from the grip of Satan’s lies.
If you have a few more minutes, I’d like to share a story of
what happened when I allowed God to use…The Real Me
Sitting across from me in the Spring of 2011, I could see she
was unsure about sharing her story (maybe for the first time) the reasons why
she chose to abort the child within her. But she really didn’t need to mummer a
word, her body language said it all… Shame. Angry. Guilt. Along with an emptiness
that had taken residence in her heart. The voice struggled to cry out. It wanted to
take back all she had done but the past was now to be her future.
As her story started to unfold, her body began to relax and
there in her eyes I saw a glimmer of hope... God was with us. She told me she had
grown up religious but it wasn’t apart of her life today. Yet, she was willing
to let me come along side of her to help with this pain that she was
experiencing. A pain the world told her wouldn’t exist if she was to have this
“procedure.”
Our relationship grew as the weeks passed through this
journey of healing and restoration. We shared, we laughed, we cried, yet I knew
she wouldn’t be able to live in the present, until she trusted God. Believed in
His Truth. I had asked her several times if she wanted to receive the gift of
salvation and each time she would declined the wall grew a little stronger.
Then on our fifth meeting the LORD whispered to me “ Tammy, lay out the truth
boldly and I’ll do the rest.”
Yep, you guessed it! She declined and went home. I thought
did I hear God or was it my own hopeful desire to lead her to the living water.
It wasn’t until our next meeting, she told me she’d been having a hard time
swallowing some of the truth that was said to her, but she decided to seek God during
the week and she found Him!
Its been two years since the day of her salvation, when
Truth spoke into her life and believe me, she is on fire for God!
One thing I try to do is stay connected with the women I’ve
worked with either through Facebook, email or texting. Many times my heart has
been blessed to see the growth they’ve made, so when Kim invited me to her
baptism on November 17, 2013 my heart was filled with a sense of thankfulness. Without
hesitation, she stood in front of the congregation and told her testimony. A
testimony that many of us are still ashamed to utter a word but not her. By her
revealing the “secret” (her daughter) Bella’s life would be validated and Kim’s
baptism was now the finally statement to…I belong to Christ Jesus.
Oh, one last thing. As we were all singing and worshiping before
the baptism, God spoke these words to my heart... “Tell Kim that her daughter
didn’t die in vain.” Now, I don’t get
these orders from God very often but when I told Kim, her eyes filled with
tears, and I believed, she knew what God meant.
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Thursday, October 17, 2013
#perfectlove… was waiting for me in my bathroom.
He notices and cares enough to tell us that our hearts need
repair. He won’t leave a notice on our front door, but He did leave Himself as
a love letter nailed to the Cross of Calvary, declaring the depth of His
perfect love. (Renee Swope, A Confident Heart)
#perfectlove… was waiting for me in my bathroom.
This night was no different then any other night. Taking off
our makeup (which we hated doing) was a little time consuming, but time well spent
together. I loved the fact that spending time with Sydney (my daughter) no
matter what we did or where we were was always blessing to me. During our “
face washing marathon” you would find us sometimes laughing, make faces in the
mirror or talking about life’s struggles.
How could she love me so much after years of throwing angry
words at her? What about the times she wanted to be held, but all I could do
was push her to the side? Do You remember the time I left her and her dad? Where
was the love of her mother then, when she so needed me?
He knew about all those questions. We had dealt with them
years ago, when I finally stopped manipulating the truth of my abortion.
Because of my abortion all of my guilt, bitterness, shame and angry had been hurl
towards my daughter. I thought…if I wasn’t worthy enough to love the child that
I had aborted, how could I possible be worthy of Sydney ’s love. Pushing her away was the
answer. Making her hate me…isn’t that what I deserved?
But today, He wanted me to believe that all was forgiven. That our relationship was restored and to receive the #perfectlove only He could place in
#perfectlove waits patiently for you to make the journey to the “well” of total surrender.
Thursday, August 15, 2013
#SayWhat
I want you to share.
But LORD, I don’t think they will understand unless they’ve been there. Well,
many have, but they think too that no one will understand, that’s why I want you to share.
I had decided to forgo participating in the Blog Hop this
week until the conversation above took place during my workout at the gym this
morning. I have to say, God at times, picks the strangest places to have a
conversation with you. So, here is what He wanted me to share…
Along life’s journey, I’ve been asked the question of how many
children do I have and the answer has always been two. But this particular
evening, about three years ago, as I was standing with my friend and her mother
(which I just meet) in the lobby of a church when the “question” came. With a
little bit of hesitation I answered “ I have two children.” Immediately, I
heard the Holy Spirit clear His throat saying, “You don’t have two children but three. Go ahead and tell her the truth.” #SayWhat! “There is no way she is going to
understand, if I tell her the truth!” was my comeback. “She doesn’t have too, but you need to acknowledge your child. Go
ahead, I AM with you.”
I didn’t understand and I was scared to death but I stopped
in the middle of the sentence and said “ Well, that not true. You see, I have
three children, a son 28, a daughter 17 and a one who died ( her response was…
“Oooh” before I could get to the end of my sentence) because I chose to have an
abortion that I totally regret now. I could see in her eyes she was trying to comprehend
it, so I continued “I’m sorry if I made you uncomfortable, but I can’t deny my
child’s existence anymore, I hope you understand?” With a half smile on her
face, she said “Well, I’m sure at the time you didn’t know what to do?.” With a
half smile on my face I left it at that.
We ended the night with a hug along with “It was nice
meeting you and have a safe trip home.”
Walking back to my car I was still
confused with why I had to go there, yet I was relieved knowing I didn’t have
to hide him (my child) anymore. On the way home, God let me know that it was
important not to ignore my child’s life because you see, my friend, she had
just finished going through the post-abortion bible study with me as her mentor.
She knew my story and she had learned how important it was to be honest about
our abortion(s) because if we don’t shame has a way of creeping back into our
lives.
It wasn’t easy that night and when I share “my” next step in
this testimony of mine with women who I have the privilege to mentor, they say...
“I don’t think I will ever be able to be that opened about my abortion(s).” And
I gently reply “All I can say is if He speaks to your heart in this area say
#YesToGod.”
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